I'm 43 years old I already have two kids and a grown up I'm moving out of the house I'm engaged to a man we've been dating for almost four years he's five years younger than me he has no children we've been trying to have a baby for a while now it has not work I don't want to get any older and be trying to have a baby I feel like 43 is kind of old to be high trying to have a baby what kind of test can you get done see if you can even have children because I am 43 years old now so I know it's not going to be easy to have a baby being my age is it medicines out there testing that I can do I don't want to stall this any longer because I know he and I both want to have a baby together.. am I crazy for wanting to have a baby at 43?? Any help I'd appreciate I've tried to talk to my family doctor about it is she thinks being 43 is way too old to be having a baby so I'm a little frustrated I just don't know what to do anymore any help or any pointers appreciate