I don’t know what to do anymore. My husband and I get into this argument at least once a few weeks. He complains that I never want to have sex and to be honest... I never do. I usually just agree to it and when we get started I get into it, enjoy it, and he can give me 2-3 orgasms but I never initiate it and I never really feel like doing it. We’ve been married for 3+ years and had a baby a little over a year ago but this issue began after the first year of marriage I’d say.

When I was younger, my drive was like no other. He could just look at me and I would get like crazy wet. Now it takes a lot of work for me to get there.

We were having sex 1-2x a week and that wasn’t enough but realistically it’s hard to find time when we both work and have a toddler.

I’m just so sick of having the same argument over and over. I don’t know the point to this post. Maybe. Just to vent. Maybe asking for suggestions. I don’t know.