Me and (my now ex) have been together for over six years. We are both 23. We have known each other ever since we were young. He always had a crush on me and when we were in High school we started speaking more often. We became very close and became best friends. That lasted for about 2 years until he told me that he still had feelings for me ever since we were young. And I also fell for him. We got together and it has been 6 years.

He has been the best since the beginning of our relationship and we would rarely fight. 2 years ago he met this girl thru his friends that he doesn’t associate with anymore. This girl has been on and off and tbh I always saw her as a threat to our relationship because I caught him speaking to her and stalking her socials as well as telling his friends about her.. this would occur on and off and it it made me feel hella insecure. He cut her off once he saw how much of an impact she was to our relationship. My bf doesn’t like me speaking to my guy mates and I respect that so I don’t. And he told me the same would apply to him. Earlier this month, he had added her on Snapchat again and it made me feel so ugly about myself. I approached him calmly about the situation and he got angry and didn’t care about how it made me feel. He would yell at me when I would bring her up. And out of no where he even said “our relationship isn’t going to work out”. He said “she’s a good friend” and this made me furious because she doesn’t know him LET ALONE has done anything for him??????

She is attractive, she has had multiple enhancements done (just saying this so you guys get an idea) and the fact that he chose her over me has made me feel less confident about myself :(

He told me he is never going to cut her off to better our relationship, he said I have to deal with it. But he cut me off instead and he blocked me.

I’m afraid they will get together as he’s always thinking of her by stalking her socials and adding her.. like I said, me and him started off as friends..