My wonderful perfect daughter was born on November 10th and I absolutely adore her. It took 3 years to conceive and I’m worried it would take just as long or longer to give her a little sibling. I do not want her to be an only child. We are a military family and want her to have someone to go through it with her and it feels like one more little would finish up our family nicely. Plus I have 3 siblings and enjoy the relationships and having them around growing up. Now that being said I am NOT planning on having another baby within the 1st year after this birth because I’m worried about possible complications and I would like to lose some weight and heal up more completely to have a hopefully smoother pregnancy. I got the nexplanon birth control around 2 months post birth. I’m just worried that waiting will make it hard to have another one and it’s been bothering me. I also want her to just have some time as an only child to just soak up the attention too. So many conflicting wants its driving me mad. I feel like I’m going crazy and stressing unnecessarily (on top of all the normal new mom stress) 😐. Just me? Photo of the wonderful lil baby my family have lovingly nicknamed Squishy Chonk 😂