I’ve been asking my husband to initiate sex more often, as it seems like I usually am the one to start it. And when I do, it’s usually me pleasuring him and I’m not getting that reciprocated.

When we were home together I went to switch on a power cord that a lamp / his Apple Watch was connected too and saw the now playing app on his watch with the words “MILF talking to...” on it.

I feel hurt. I think it’s more because I see that after the fact I’ve asked him to initiate more with me. It comes off to me that he’d rather watch that then be intimate with me, his wife sitting under the same roof as him.

Would you be upset?

(Also, I’m not ignorant. I understand that men watch porn. I’m more upset that I’ve asked him to initiate more often, then when we are home together that’s what he goes to instead of me.)