Am I wrong?

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Am I wrong for not wanting my child’s father at the Dr appointments/ultrasounds because we aren’t together. I’m only allowed to bring one person with me because of COVID.

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so no you aren't wrong but at the same time that's also his baby too, i dont know the backstory but if it were me i would like to give my childs father a chance to be a father to him or her

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My opinion is no. Your medical appointments you should feel 100% comfortable. You can always give him an ultrasound picture and all updates. He doesnt NEED to be there. 
Im married i think my husband went to a few my first pregnancy and once to my second pregnancy. He was definitely there at both births. He works 🤷🏻‍♀️ idk if you feel comfortable and you guys have a civil relationship then offer him to go. If not then thats it. No one has a right to your medical information and that includes appointments. Not even husbands. I have to sign off to who my info can be disclosed too even for my husband.

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If the only excuse is "You're not together" I feel that's wrong. It's his baby too. But if he's been abusive or something to you, then no, he shouldn't be there.

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If he wants to go with, definitely support him being there. It’s a good sign he’s going to be a more involved father. You definitely want to support that bond he has with his kiddo. Just think about what’s best for your kid.

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This really depends on why your not together . Without more to the story can’t really give you an opinion

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So I have never been in your situation. However I understand for a man this is their only way to connect with their child till it arrives. I also understand it is where you feel the most vunerable and these appointments are so important to be comfortable to ask questions and understand yourself what is going on. Lastly when it comes to delivering your child it is all about what is best for you as you are the one going through it. Wish you and baby both well.

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