Can someone help me not feel alone...?

Question

I've been "not preventing" for a year. I'm becoming desperate lol and the negative tests each month just make me feel.. Incomplete. My SO already has a child, so whereas he understands what's going on--he cannot relate to the needing I am longing for.
My cycle for the last year...
27 days
Then I had two periods pretty quickly at 13 day cycles 
37 days
26 days 
34 days
29 days 
32 days
35 days
42 days
50 days

This last one was 17 days past the "expected" day.
I haven't gone to the doctor. We haven't been preventing, but we haven't been trying. We are just.. Well, yeah.

Advice? Tips? Anything?

Thanks guys.

Answer

There  is  only  around  a30%  chance  of pregnancy  for  like 2 day window at the best and of course  there are others  days  with lower  numbers   (depending  on the woman  ),  so it isn't  as easy  as everyone  thinks  that  it is. The  best  thing  is not to beat yourself  up over it and stay  as positive  as you can while  trying  out  all of the little  tricks .  One day it will be your turn ☺ I pray  that  God  blesses you  with exactly  what  you  want   (sooner than  later  ) GL  😊

Answer

Well if you want to actually start actively trying you could try taking some prenatal vitamins, use opks, and track your bbt. I would also definitely start looking into something that will make you more regular as well.

Answer

My husband and I have been TTC for over a year. We started by just pulling the goalie, then started tracking/OPKs as time went on. My cycles had become really irregular as well. Finally went to a doc and turns out I have hormone imbalances. Should be able to treat it easily and conceive soon. Don't be scared to look for answers! It may be part of your path to parenthood.

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My sister wasn't ttc and not preventing (well she wanted a baby but wasn't doing it religiously with the opk's etc). It took her and her husband 3 years to convieve their first baby. They thought one of them had fertility problems but that wasn't the case, it just took longer. After she had her son she was pregnant again. Her son is now nearly 2 and a half and her baby (also a boy) is now 6 weeks or so 😊 Its not helpful but hopefully it makes you feel like pregnancy doesn't always happen straight away ☺ Good luck!

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