My almost 9 month old can be soooooo whiny. It’s worse when I tell him no or when he doesn’t get his way. My husband thinks that he’s getting “spoiled” but I honestly don’t know what else I could be doing besides re-directing or being stern when I say no. When he whines I pick him up and I’m scared that’s not the right thing to do. Also my husband is concerned that there’s something medically wrong with him that we’re not seeing because he can be just so fussy at times. Is this normal?