What should i do

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Me and my bf been together 2 years but were talking for about 4 . Over the time of our relationship I found some stuff out like he had girlfriends why were havin sex, he was ttc with one who came into our lives now and tried to say it was his but wasnt. He has talked to two of my cousins. I Found none of this out. Im kinda hurt because I remember back then wanting to be his gf so bad but him saying he wasnt ready, I remember being blocked from his fb, and him dissapesring off and on. I was only 17 at the time so nieve. But he hid all this so well I thought he was the perfect guy which is why as soon as he was finally ready to be together i said yes. Now here we are two years later happy as ever talking engagement and ttc moving together. Should i ask questions like why'd yu wait so long to be with me? Whyd yu lie? or move on dont hurt yourself hes not a hoe nomo be happy?

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Its better to get everything off your chest & set the foundation of honesty& being able to talk to one another about anything before making any further steps in the relationship.  So yes , if that's on your mind be open & talk to him about it .

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I think leave the past in the past. My SO and I were off and on the first year. He'd block me from things, not answer my calls, and things like that for a month at a time. I looked at it as we weren't an "item" means I can do whatever I want and he can too. 
He got caught up in it all once when he called me needing a ride to "his boys house" so I took him there. Then he left his phone in my car... Saw things I hated, and so I took his phone back to him, told him when he could make up his mind and settle down to let me know. - there was a girl there to see him. Needless to say I had to fight my way through like 5 of his friends just to give him his damn phone.
But a little over a month later he called me and asked if he could take me out. We had a really long talk, I told him it would take a long time for me to trust him. He worked for it! Proving himself everyday. 
We've now been together over 5 years. He's my best friend, my soul mate, and an amazing father. I still don't care to know what happened while we were apart... He did him and I did me. If he wants to tell you on his own he will. Sometimes it's best to not know the things he didwhile you were apart. He could be keeping things from you to protect you. I know I don't want my SO to know some of the things I did while he was out doing what he did. We were 19 at the time of all this, it was my "party phase" I'm not proud of a lot of stories I have from that time. 🙈

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I don't see why you wouldn't talk about it. But the past is the past and you also have to give him a chance to be a better man

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