Me and my girlfriend have only been dating for a couple months, but we have decided to have sex. I have no idea what to do, does anyone have advice? should we use toys? should we not? It will be both of our first times and I want us to enjoy it, we’ve already done a little bit but it’s generally just been over the clothes. I don’t really care about my enjoyment and just want her to feel good. Like seeing her get off is all the enjoyment I need. Advice?