I’ve only ever came when I was on top of the guy other than that I never been able to when they are doing all the work but what I do is I put it in while facing them and I lean my body back slightly and instead of jumping up and down I sway my hips front and back slow and fast depending on the mood while bringing my coochie up slightly off his 🍆 you feel it within your whole body literally the sensation of the orgasm . But two things it makes his tip feel good and sensitive while also makes u cum 👌🏼 thank me later