So I just had my first 3 months ago. I’m deff a planer but for his birth I kinda just went with the flow and didn’t really explore any options. I should of but I didn’t. My epidural failed 3 times and I was so out of it because of it and I remember the horrible parts and not the best parts. They say your will forget it and I sure didn’t.

So since the epidural really didn’t work I know what the pain for the most part feels like. We aren’t planning to try again maybe till the end of the summer or when he turns two. But I’ve been thinking about a fully natural birth, and to be honest my other is beg for a c section. I would prefer not to do that but it’s something I’m thinking about. Since the epidural didn’t work for me I just need to look into ways to manage pain and what they could do for me in the hospital.