Doctor doesn’t know! Help! Ear pain

Momof2girls👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

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For the past at least 3/4 years I’ve had the ear pain in my left ear only. It comes and goes. It could be every few weeks or days. I went to urgent care the first 4 times and doctor said ear infection and gave me all the meds needed for that. The 5th time he recommended the ENT. I went. All this money later, nothing. This was about 2 years ago. He told me to pinch my nose, hold my breath and blow to make ears pop. BS. That didn’t help. So here I am today writing this as I’m having one of my spells with my ears wondering what the hell it could be. It’s not a constant pain it’s more of a coming and going. It kinda lingers up to my head. I have a slight headache. It’ll last a few days or a week and stop and not come back on for another few days or even weeks. I still antibiotic drops that I use and they do nothing. Sometimes it won’t even go into my ear. Anyone have any ideas? I’m lost. I can’t think of anything that makes it better or worse or a time it comes on more or anything. Please help!