Mr wrong

Hey ladies , I got a question. Why do women always fall for the wrong guy. In my case I keep getting one that only wants me for what I can do for them. It's like when he comes around he doesn't want to be here and it breaks my heart because I love him and I see his lies and even found out about him cheating on me through tinder . I can't win for losing. Am I supposed to just be by myself because that's how I feel . I ant take another day of this man playing with my heart . It's making angry and I'm starting to wonder if I should go back to a cold hearted woman who just keeps to work and school. Just leave men alone and starting collecting cats lol ok that's pushing it but I'm just saying. Help please