Okay so my husband and I got married almost 3 years ago, we got married only a few months of dating. I had already had my first son by this time, he is not his father. Well when I first met him he was so eager to help me with my son, change diapers, give baths anything. He was such a good dad. The guy I was with before him was such a jerk and extremely lazy no work ethic what so ever. Which is why I thought my husband was such a good dad and we got married right away. Well recently I just found out I found out that he cheated on me with my best friend, and now I feel even more distant from him. I feel things will never get back to normal. We have 2 other children together, and ever since my middle child was born, he just stopped doing anything. He doesn't feel he has to clean, do dishes, laundry, baths, diapers nothing. He is so lazy around the house and it drives me nuts. Honestly after my 2nd was born I have thought about getting a divorce but now after finding out about the cheating I have felt like I deserve better. I feel like all he wants to do is have sex. We never talk. We will be sitting in the house just the two of us and nothing, zip. I will try to have a conversation and I get nothing. This is not normal. He never tells me I'm beautiful or even pretty. All he ever says is I love your ass. Like seriously I feel he just married me for my butt. The only thing that is keeping me from leaving is finances. I am a stay at home mom. I never finished college either. I know I could get a job save up but life would be hard. But I know I could do it.