During TTC, especially with infertility, we often hear the advice to "Don't give up!" The intention is good, but toxic positivity can be detrimental.

Unfortunately, not everyone will conceive and give birth to a biological child. It is OK and can ultimately be good to stop trying when it is no longer the best thing emotionally, mentally or physically. We need to normalize stopping our journey to biological parenthood if the time is right. It is not "giving up," which is associated with feelings of shame and inadequancy. It is a conscious choice to accept a life different than you hoped for because it is the best thing for you and your partner. They still deserve a full and rich life even if they choose to end their journey without a biological child. ❤