I called earlier to schedule an appointment with my OBGYN because I think I’ve had postpartum, it’s been a year though. She told me they couldn’t help me! Was that rude?

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She basically said I needed to see a primary care doctor, but I don’t have one. I’m probably just overreacting. Which isn’t anything new to me at this point. I take everything really personal. 😥 but I’ve had suicidal thoughts. Although I’d never act on them, my postpartum has gotten completely out of control. I just feel so lost.

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I'd say it honestly depends on how she said it and the tone used. She's right though, as an OB she can't actually help you with mental health. If you don't have a PCP (which you stated you don't) you should look into counselors and therapists in the area who specialize in PPD. That's going to be your best start point. Just because your OB can't help you with this, doesn't mean there aren't people out there who can. Please do not let this discourage you from seeking help if you need it.

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I don’t think what they said was rude. Get a primary doctor

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You need to go to your pcp at this point that's all. She wasn't being rude. They will help you or refer you to a psychiatrist to get on you back on track. Good luck hon!

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After some time they no longer see you that’s true. But please whatever thoughts and feelings you’re having take seriously. Seek help. Call your doctor and tell them everything. It can take up to a year still even more for these feelings to surface. Take care of yourself and reach out if you need anything. ❤️❤️

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My OB won’t see you after 6 weeks unless it’s specifically for a GYN issue (mastitis, pelvic floor issues, etc.). They do exactly what yours did and refer you to you PCP.

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It’s not rude. Some OBGYNs aren’t comfortable treating PPD/PPA. I had PPA after my babies and went to my primary first because I liked them better, but the midwife who delivered my second said she was glad for that because she wasn’t comfortable prescribing medications for that. I know it can be hard to find a primary right now, though. I hope something works out for you.

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That’s not the obgyns specialty. She referred you to the correct person, a pcp. Which you should have. Call the back of your insurance card or use their app to find one. If you’re suicidal or a danger to yourself or others, please go to your local emergency room now.

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You're no longer under their care. See your family doctor.

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Sounds like she referred you back to your primary care doctor. What’s rude about that?

I called earlier to schedule an appointment with my OBGYN because I think I’ve had postpartum, it’s been a year though. She told me they couldn’t help me! Was that rude?

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