SAHM help!!!
Hey ladies. So I’m needing to vent.. I’ve been a SAHM for 3 years now since I had my daughter and everything has been great in terms of raising my baby. However, I am now expecting baby #2 and my fiancé has been completely unsupportive. I get it, he works LONG hours and the last thing he wants to do is talk about how I’m feeling but I can’t even get a decent and meaningful conversation out of him. I bought a nice dress and told him I was wearing it when we celebrate our 13th anniversary well guess who got ignored? Me. I’m 19 weeks pregnant and miserable. On top of all this he’s been extremely cheap lately and even complained about buying me a 4$ McMuffin. I can’t ever say I’m “craving” anything cause he will nag me about it or say “all you ever do is think about spending money”. I legit spend the little amount I have in my savings when I really want to eat something I’m craving. I keep telling him how I need maternity clothes and he ignores me. Yes he’s bought things for the baby but what about my needs? I’m also suffering with major depression/anxiety, type 1 diabetic, and now my kidneys are acting up as well. It seems like I’m never good enough. I cook, clean and take care of our daughter. Am I just being selfish at this point? Please help ladies. I’m at my breaking point and need advise. Should I try harder? Should I cook 7 days a week? Have the house spotless?
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