I need to vent !!!

Angela • I have a daughter that will be four at the end of September husband and i been together a give and a half years i am 26 live in Texas
So I just noticed a lot of stuff missing from my apartment well come to find out I also noticed my daughter stuff missing well the only other person that has keys to my place was my sister when her and her boyfriend got into a fight she had no where to go so I let her stay with me for a few weeks .... Well tonight I had a feeling I should drive by her place and my daughters dream light was in her back seat !!! Her window was Dow. So I grab it .... I am so very angry ... Almost to the point if breaking into her place and taking my stuff back !!!!
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Lu

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No need to stoop to her level. Simply ask for the stuff bad and if she says no or argues then call police to help. I understand I would be highly upset as well. But If she's not willing to listen to you, maybe she will listen when the cops are around and maybe she will no in the future not to mess with you. ? all smiles from there. 

Ka

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Document everything! If something goes missing, take note. If you visit her place and find something of yours there, confront her. She could be in a bad place right now, she could have a problem, or she could just be a seriously awful person. But whatever her reason is, you shouldn't have to put up with it. Take your stuff back, call her out on it, and go to the police if it happens again. 

Ka

Katy • Sep 24, 2014
Then it might be time to rid her from your life. For both you and your daughter's sake. Some people just can't be helped

An

Angela • Sep 23, 2014
thank you for understanding

An

Angela • Sep 23, 2014
she is a awful person !!! she has a great job and spend like 200/300 a week on stuff for her self ... while i am a waitress struggling to make ebds meet pulling double shifts just to pay for my daughter to have a party this weekend .... every birthday and Christmas i struggle to buy her stuff and its now the stuff coming up missing

Ni

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No! Don't stoop to her level! You need to be the adult and talk to her to try to get your/her things back. You can also go to the police and get your things back that way. But... No matter what you decide to do, you need to change your locks ASAP so she can't get in your house again. If you're worried she is going to try and get/break in if the locks are changed most places can have officers drive by to make sure everything looks/is good. ​​But.... No matter what happens, or what you decide to do. Be a person that your daughter can look up to. You don't want your daughter to think it's ok to act that way. 

An

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Also she took make up my friend gave me (she died from cancer last year )that's one thing that really hurts

Br

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Im so sorry to hear this has happened. I know how it feels when you're robbed. Like you've been personally violated. 

An

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She would denied ever taking stuff from my place... If I showed up over their to talk to her about she would not answer (her and I never got along growing up) she would always starts fights with me and cause drama in school home or any where I was ..... I am going to file a police report . .. And changing my locks....For I will be working from 4pm-2am tonight ..... She has only done thus when my car is not home