Help! BV

Okay so I hate to bring this up but I believe I have BV . I get many Urinary track infections, and fishy odors . I’ve tried washing different and getting special soaps but they only help for a little bit. It’s so embarrassing it’s killed my sex life and my husband suffers because of it and I’m too embarrassed to open up to him. I’ve heard that it actually affects many women and I was just wondering if anyone has some tips to help or probiotic pills or really I’ll try anything to not be embarrassed of my own skin anymore. I change my underwear and shower frequently . I just want to feel normal !