Is this rude?

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I was talking about getting eyelash extensions (for myself) and my fiancé was like, “how much are they?” And I was like “$200 I think” and he was like, “well I’m not getting them for you” 
Ok???? 
I don’t get why he would have to say that? I was never going to ask him for them? Then he was like, “you’re grown you can buy your own shit just like I can buy my own shit” 
LOL OKAY?? What?? Then he said it was a joke.

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I really would have been petty and rude back and said “I wouldn’t expect your broke ass to.” 
Yeah that’s rude and an unwarranted comment.

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Yeaaaaaaa that would have thrown me off. It was rude. 
Now if he was like “well damn I was gonna get it but I didn’t know it was so expensive” then I’d laugh.

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I think that is v rude tbh...my boyfriend wouldn’t ever even joke about that and talk to me like that. Joke or not he obviously has thought about it before 😂

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I hate how people try to downplay their rude comments with "but I'm just joking".
He was rude. Simple. And by the way, $200 for eyelash extensions?!? That seems pricey!! I thought mine were expensive at $100! LOL

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He said it was a joke because he was embarrassed after being an ass about it.

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That wasnt a joke lol he just assumed you were gonna ask him to pay for it and was an ass about it. Tell him you know damn well you can buy whatever you want with your own money

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Yup seems rude. 
I've dated someone who did that about something I was going to buy for him 🙃

Is this rude?

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