Do you feel like you can do bad all by yourself?

Question

Sometimes idk if I should have gotten married.
It seems like when I was a single mother to our daughter I was able to save more money, have more time to love myself and work on myself, have more freedom and just worry about myself and my daughter... 
Me and her dad got back together and it’s like life is harder again. Having to spend more money and life isnt easier. I find myself with more problems than I had when I was single. 
Is this normal?

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This isn’t normal. Your partner should add to your life, not make it harder.

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I'm literally in the process of finding my own place and moving because I just dont want to be with him anymore. He has to pay a shit ton of child support, he still acts childish even though he's 30, and my kids are never helped by him because he's too busy giving money to his other kids. O know I can do better without him so thats what im gonna do. Get my shit together and keep my mouth shut until then

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This isn't normal. Your husband should make life less complicated. Not more complicated

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Relationships are supposed to complement your life and make them better not make them more complicated. Your gut is telling you that you probably shouldn’t of gotten back together with him, and you’ve already figured out that this isn’t the best place for you, your gut is telling you something is wrong getting back with this man, and that you are better off alone than in bad company. You realize that you deserve better, and I applaud you for that and not just sticking around for the sake of the kids situation but you were taking control of your life and I applaud you good job. And do what is best for you and your child.

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I was just talking to my granny about this the other day . I am the same way , I feel like I'm thriving in life when I'm single .no stress ,all the money,more motivated, more self love . I think in relationships we get way to comfortable maybe and that's causes the lack of drive we have . It sucks 🙃

Do you feel like you can do bad all by yourself?

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