I’ve recently been craving really kinky sex, being tied up, teased, etc. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we have a son together. Our sex life is pretty lifeless, pretty bland and boring. The last few days I’ve been thinking a lot about my ex that was super kinky, (it was long distance so we never actually got to meet) but all the things he used to tell me he wanted to do to me, the way he talked to me and made me feel. I can’t help but think about it. I’d obviously never cheat or do anything behind my boyfriends back, nor do I have any intention of leaving him. But is it wrong for me to having these intense fantasies about my ex while I’m in a committed relationship?? Part of me feels really bad for thinking about it.