Can anyone explain how anal sex feels/how I should prepare for the first time???

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I haven't had anal sex before and my man wants to try it too what should I expect?

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Okay so it DOESNT hurt if you start thinking of anal as sexual pleasure rather than pain and pooping lol 💩 it took me awhile to get used to it, but I really like it now! You have to start SUPER SLOW. Know your limits and use a TON of lube! You have to be relaxed for this to work!  First you start with a finger, then 2, MAYBE 3, depending on how thick he is. Then if you think youre ready and want to try, have him "knock on the back door."  Make sure he has lubed up ALOT. And also when he puts his fingers in you he lubes the inside of you as well! GO SLOW! Hope this helps ❤️💩

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I'll add my voice as a ray of positivity: it feels quite nice as long as your partner goes slooooow, listens to you, and you stay very relaxed and super lubed up. I never had to have my SO finger me to loosen me up because we always have vaginal sex beforehand, and the orgasms get me nice and relaxed. So I'd highly recommend you have an orgasm or two before you move to anal. Then, bring a vibrator or prepare to have him play with your clit. While I find anal highly pleasurable, it's not intense enough for me to orgasm from.

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GO SLOW. use lube. Start with one finger and move your way up or else it will hurt a lot. Stay relaxed or else it going to be more difficult.

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LUBE AND GO SLOW. 
make sure he's patient and make sure he loves you!

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Don't do it, hurts like hell even with lube, I bleed for 3 days and couldn't do number 2 for a week. I HATE IT!

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It was painful for me 😖

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It doesn't necessarily hurt! That's a strong and scary description. But it is uncomfortable and personally the poop factor is hard for me to get past. I always think I'm going to poop in him, even if I've gone to the bathroom first. Lube and relaxation is the only thing to recommend.

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It can feel a little uncomfortable at first, not necessarily painful, just kind of a different feeling when you aren't used to it. But if you can relax and make it past the discomfort it can feel soooooo amazing, especially if you're really turned on already. It feels like he's hitting spots you never knew existed 🙈 haha definitely take it slow, use lots of lube, and stop if you feel actual pain. Even if you don't like it the first time I recommend giving it a couple more tries, it can be so worth it

Can anyone explain how anal sex feels/how I should prepare for the first time???

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