Super Bowl Sunday was a pretty fun day in my household, little did I know we conceived that night....

I just hired a team of wedding planners last week and I’ve been feeling so blah and out of it lately.

I have a lot of cramps but no bleeding and thought “hmm I must be starting my period soon....”

At a pool party this past Sunday, I told my friend about my period symptoms and how they’re just really off right now and I’m 5 days late,

(which is normal for my period to be off bc I took birth control for 12 years and stopped a few years back, since I’ve been with the same partner for over 6.5 years)

My friend pulled me into the bathroom and I took a urine HCG test and it came out positive, I didn’t understand what it meant, and she had me take another two tests to be sure.

YEP! All three were positive for the HCG “pregnancy” hormone. So now my question is:

WOULD YOU ELOPE RIGHT NOW AND HAVE A RECEPTION LATER?

This is my fiancé’s preferred choice, or

WOULD YOU PUSH THE WEDDING UP AND GET MARRIED ASAP?

Also, I’m pretty early and there’s a high chance of miscarrying since I’m only just past my 5th week of pregnancy. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE ADVISE!