Unbiased opinions

So I would like to know what some of you all think. I have a wedding this year November that I’m planning and me and my fiancé are very excited about it and me being a responsible adult I have to cut back on spending and going out all the time. So I explained this to my girlfriends and all of a sudden they think I’m using my wedding as a pawn (poor choice of words on their part) to get out of going out with them or buying gifts for ones birthday. Now me I’m not a materialistic person. But when I give gifts I don’t like it to be something small and insignificant I like to give a gift that I wouldn’t mind receiving. Everyone like money and right now I can’t do that ... so when more funds are Available to me then I can spend on my friends which is something I don’t mind doing

So until I can do so I didn’t get a gift for the 2 girls who birthdays passed. For me, spending time with them is enough or all I need. But it’s gotten to the point of the friendship that they want money being spent on them to show I appreciate them and I can’t do that at this very moment. So instead of being understanding... they think my wedding is an excuse not to spend money.

So now .. I’m pissed. It pissed me off and rubbed me the wrong way to know that they felt I was using my wedding as a pawn when In all actuality I’m being responsible and watching my spending. Now there are 6 of us and only 1 is married and I’m engaged. The others are either single af or have a bf. So they wouldn’t understand the pressure of what it’s like to plan a wedding except one person in the group. So I’m to the point where I don’t want to invite none of my gfs since they think me not spending money on them every now and then that’s a problem to them. What do you all think ??