Pregnant or not, idk

Kelsey
I feel like I have a lot of the symptoms of pregnancy but every test I take keeps coming out negative. I was suppose to start my period yesterday but nothing. 
I stop taking my birth control at the beginning of November, and my husband and I have been TTC every since. I had bleeding about a week ago maybe, which could have been from getting off my birth control. My period was suppose to be this week but I'm not sure if I will get it because I had already bleed. This is so confusing! 
But I have been having cramping and BAD back pain, I'm tired all the time and I had a little white discharge. 
Idk what's going on..... 😒😒😒