Would you leave your husband?

Been married for 4 years with a newborn. Now usually we use each other’s phones.. no biggie. We can just pick it up with no need to enter a password, But yesterday was different. I couldn’t find my phone so I attempted to get his to call it. He immediately got furious that I was going for his phone. I explained why I needed to use it and he finally let me. I was upset about the whole thing but I left it at that. Then he said “ I’ve been getting spam calls let me delete the log.”. Shit was super strange. So I asked him why is he being so protective with his phone all of a sudden? He looked at me with this dumb face and just gave it to me. Anyway I was calling my phone and walked throughout the phone with it so I can hear my phone ring. He was walking closely behind me. I yelled “do you have something to hide?” He answered no. I felt it was a lie and went through his messages. He had 12 unread messages from his “cousin” Andrew. I let it be that until he said “See now you look dumb” I looked alittle closer and saw it was two Andrew’s in his phone. One was his cousin and the other had and emoji at the end of the name. I opened it and boom! He’s been texting and sexting a female and her stored under his cousin’s name. I’ve been bamboozed.

Hey ladies- I would like to add something. I’m definitely leaving him. I have enough money for my little girl and myself to get out. This house is mine, he moved in. We signed a prenup so what’s mine is mine. Lol I’m no fool, & was already established before I met him. I kept my maiden name so I don’t think I’ll have too much trouble. One thing about me is, my mom raised a strong one. And I’ll teach my daughter the same. “Never give them the power to feed you because they’ll have the power to starve you as well”. I’m packing his shit as I read your comments. I’m not the type to try to “stick it out for the kids”. Disrespect is disrespect. And I won’t tolerate it. One thing he can’t say is that I wasn’t a good wife to him or a great person in general