My husband and I decided we would adopt on our second date, I was in the process of adopting a teen when I met my husband. She sadly tried to take her life before she found out and was no longer up for adoption afterwards I never found out why.

We were uncertain about having bio kids but decided we wanted one just to experience pregnancy. We became pregnant before we were able to adopt twice now. We both still want to adopt. We beloved in preserving birth order so not shooting older than our youngest (there's a large amount of research that seems to make sense to us). I'm expecting now and was thinking about staying training so I could try to adopt when this one is 2.

Does this timeline seem selfish or rushed, I want a large family and I love growing up close in age to my siblings