My fiance and I live with his parents. I'm due in February with a baby girl.

My MIL is always suggesting things about when I bring the baby home. For example, tonight at dinner, we were talking about the baby. My fiance jokingly said, "if she starts crying in the middle of the night, you gotta get up with her, I have work." (He was kidding, don't need any rude comments )

Then my MIL says, "yeah right, you guys will be banging on my door asking me what to do"

She acts like I don't know how to take care of a baby. I was around my 2 nephews and niece from the day they were born. I know how to take care of a baby. Especially MY baby. I already see it being an issue with us living here, she's going to try and control me and what I do. I just know it.

Lord give me the strength to not hurt her feelings.

OK rant over.