Should I ask if he's a gf and potentially lose him as a friend?
So I'm in this theater group, I joined a month ago and there is this guy who's 8 years older than me. He isn't really my type but I felt attraction the first time we did something together as a group. But a week after I because Facebook friends with him and saw on his profile that he's in a relationship. I could find out who the girl is, she looks nice and I wouldn't want to go in between.
But we chat and it's mostly flirty, but really flirty as in "you can come over and I can tell you the story". And when we're in the theater he is somewhat touchy and stuff. I wouldn't think he is the type of guy who would cheat on his gf. The thing is our theater group has a certain type of humor, so it could easily be him joking around...but it feels different with him.
So today, I'd like to ask him if he is flirting with me or just joking around and if he has a girlfriend, which will be tough since I don't really when the right time would be and how to approach the question. But anyways, if he's joking around and has a girlfriend, then it could potentially ruin our friendship which I don't want whatsoever. I don't wanna lose what I have with him and his friends, I really enjoy hanging out with them since I can be me and don't feel judged but love (he knows some of the group for a very long time and I'd like to be part of their friends circle, but it wouldn't work that well if he and I are in a situation where a friendship can't work out)
But if I don't ask I will wonder all the time and it distracts me already too much.
I don't know what to do? Can anyone help me out?
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