Haven’t tell my family I’m pregnant

Heather

Haven’t tell my family I’m pregnant again I’m 9 weeks tomorrow I haven’t go to Obgyn either is that bad? I want to go to Obgyn when I’m like 12 -13 weeks and what about the blood work will it tell gender and insurance cover it? I haven’t tell my family bc I want to know gender first I really want a girl I have 2 boys. I don’t want a gender disappointed or family to know I’m pregnant if I don’t find out gender first.