It was my fiancés bday on the fourth. I didn't have money for a gift he wanted and I got him something for valentine's day and he felt bad because he didn't get me anything and it's been a while since he's gotten me anything or has been romantic. But I let it be. We for his bday we did what he wanted but couldn't go to the restaurant he wanted because it was full. So he felt bad and I felt but but we ended up going somewhere else that night with his dad and his gf. His dad got him some water bottles. The next day we went out to eat with his mom and her bf. And she got him a shirt and sweater,mask, portable blender. I asked him to give our son a bath 4 days after his bday and he said he can never relax and that I didn't make him feel special on his bday. I was confused and it caught me off guard and I was sad and I said really? Why ? That makes me sad . And he said omgee wow . You shouldn't even be upset. You should think about how I feel. And I asked ok babe well tell me why ? I'm just sad I didn't make you feel special and he said it's ok. We'll talk about it later . I'm just caught off guard. And I try everyday to make him feel special aside from his bday and other holidays. Part of me also thinks his mom (who doesn't like me) probably manipulated him but in such a incognito way. But it could not be that and it's just him. So idk what to do or say.