Are we moving too fast?

Question

I’m 18 and my boyfriend is 20. We’ve been together 4 months (a lot of it long distance because of covid-19 and his university commitments) I love him and can’t picture myself with anyone else but we’re already planning our lives together. He wants to be married within 5 years and is keen for us to have kids soon after. I know a lot of guys say stuff like this to keep girls interested but I can tell his heart’s in it for the long run. i’m freaking out tho idk

Answer

Plans could change, you can't predict the future, and you still have many months left until it reaches a year and then two etc.. if he shows red flags or you lose interest in him, then that'll happen and it'll be ok to break-up, even if you have both planned your life out together. 
My boyfriend told me within weeks that he can't wait to marry me and live the rest of his life with me as his wife, we've been together for 2 years now. Some guys are ready for commitment early (whether they love you or want to manipulate you) and some aren't, doesn't mean he loves you any less (as long as there's no red flags).

Answer

I don’t think bc it’s moving “too fast” that it won’t last. I met my bf at 16, he was 20. We were just friends until I was 18 bc he knew it was wrong no matter how much I chased him. Literally moved in with eachother soon as we started dating. Started trying for a baby soon after. Now I’ll be 20 next month and I just had our son a week ago. We plan on being together forever and honestly I don’t see myself ever leaving him. Some relationships do just move fast, and that’s not a bad thing. Although keep your eyes open for red flags, always. No matter how fast a relationship moves, people can change or start showing their true colors once you’re committed. I wish you guys the best 💞

Are we moving too fast?

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