Could you be with someone after finding out they gave you an std?

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It’s curable but still an std.

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Did they know about it? If they knew then absolutely I’d leave Nd would press charges. If they weren’t aware they had an std i don’t think I would just automatically leave

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This is exactly why you ask for the damn STD test results prior to committing to a relationship. Hell to the fuck no 🙅🏻‍♀️

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Yeah, if not it would be like dumping someone because they gave you a cold. 
STD stigma is just sex shaming, unless other deception is involved. Like if they knew they had it and said nothing, or cheated and got an STD. 
If they didn't have any idea, I mean, it's on me too because I probably didn't insist either of us get tested. So, the roles could very easily be reversed!
Testing should be more normalized.

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If I had exclusively been w somebody for a while and then all of a sudden I catch something from them then I would absolutely not be w them again. If they knew they had something and didn’t tell me, I wouldn’t be w them again.

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I am unable to conceive without IVF now, due to having PID from chlamydia. The PID blocked and severely damaged both of my tubes. An ex boyfriend gave me chlamydia when I was 19, and continuously lied about getting rid of it. His selfishness and my stupidity have ruined my dreams of having a huge family. My husband and I do not have the financial ability to afford IVF. I get so depressed and sometimes suicidal because of my infertility. If I could go back in time, I WOULD HAVE NEVERRRRRR slept with him! With everything I’ve been through, if someone gave me an STD, not dating them would be the LEAST of their concerns.

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if they knew and didn’t tell me then i’d be taking them to court. if they knew and told me prior then it’s my fault so no.

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Since I’m in a5 year relationship, him hearing an std means he cheated, so no

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Depends. Like did he have this std before meeting me and didn't get tested prior to having sex? In that case no because it would be my responsibility to use protection and ask him to get tested.
If he gave me the std while in a relationship where he had been clean previously....I'd be walking because he didn't get it from me.

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If he had it before we were together and didn't know it,  then I would stay with him.  
If he knew about it and didn't tell me or suddenly got one after we had been together for awhile,  then I'd prolly leave.   Or be very pissed for a very long time

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I voted yes but only if they weren't cheating and had it before we got together and didn't know. If it was cheating then I'd be gone. If they knew and gave it to me hell no I'd be gone

Could you be with someone after finding out they gave you an std?

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