Am I wrong ?

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My boyfriend thinks I’m evil for not wanting to share a car with him , he’s 30 I’m 20 & I told him it’s important we have our own car he said we can share one and split the expenses , but like I don’t want that? I want something I can CALL MINE. When we first met his car was running good and he use to take me where I needed to go . Year later his car was still great and I got me a car , soon as I got my car he started driving my car all the time ( i work from home ) & then his car messed up & now he no longer has his car so pretty much we only have the one car... and it’s hard because sometimes I need to run errands early morning & realize he has my car , or I have to Uber eats & that is expensive.. so okay taxes are coming up soon and we about to get our refund so I’m deciding to upgrade to me a newer car and he wants to share and I told him I wanted my own car.. he said I’m evil.. should I feel bad? Am I wrong ? I got a car last year because having the one car wasn’t enough , just for us to end up same place .

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Tell his 30 year old ass to buy himself a car!

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You are not wrong at all. Not having a way to get places during the day is annoying.

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No you are not wrong, you should be able to leave when you want or need to and you wouldn't have the ability to do so if he has your car all the time. He needs to grow up. Calling you evil over that is ridiculous.

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Depends, do you actually need two cars?

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How are you evil?! He is dramatic.

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You guys arent married and arent sharing finances or responsibilities yet. It's one thing for him to want to borrow your car every once in a while, but to claim 1/2 ownership and use it whenever he wants....that's something else. 
Plus, you dont want to. So that's that. Tell him to get himself a car of his own.

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Said you are evil? He sounds super melodramatic. Even when people are married they like to have two cars if it is possible. But having only one car when you are only dating is really asking for trouble! Not only is it in convenient for the other person, but if you break up Suddenly one person is left without a car. Or you have to go to court over who has the right to the car. It can get really messy. Or someone will stay in a relationship longer than they want to because suddenly they realize they will lose the car, and  have to sit around waiting until they can save up and afford their own car.
Your boyfriend can't be so foolish as to really think this is a good idea. I think he's just being lazy about this and is willing to take the consequences as they come because of his laziness.

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The one thing I refuse to share with my husband is a car. Its one thing if one of our cars are in the shop or if the weather is bad he'll drive my car since I have awd but as an adult I refuse to wait for rides like a teenager or juggle already busy schedules over something as easy to fix as having 2 cars.

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No. He should want his own shit too. What 30 year old man wants to have to drive his gf car all the time. He should be finding a way to get a new one of fix the old one. Who wants to have a car and someone else always got it. I’d be annoyed asf

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No you’re not wrong, he needs to boss up and get his own car. He is a boyfriend, not a husband, what’s yours is yours. I get helping each other out but he shouldn’t expect you to give up your car just because he doesn’t have one, that’s not how a relationship works. Plus it’s completely unfair to you and he’s the only one that gains something out of this, which is why he’s being manipulative and calling you evil.

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