How much did you spend on your wedding??

Obviously planning this for after COVID before I get attacked

We’re looking at planning our wedding and 😳 Average costs are like $30,000!! What the heck?? We want it to be fun and not have to cut out a bunch of stuff, but we also don’t have time or skills for a lot of DIY. We’re also hoping to get some people to donate their skills (cake, DJ, maybe photographer) in place of gifts 🤞 But how much did you ladies spend and how did you pay for it? What were your “big ticket” items??