Family shaming me

This is more of a vent post I think. Just frustrated. My sister came over to see my1 year old and was saying how dirty my place was and there was stuff everywhere. Yes it wasn’t spotless. (But it’s also not disgusting...I feel like I’m constantly cleaning!) I do have a 1 year old and I’m pregnant as well. But she’s making me feel absolutely terrible. I am doing my best and instead of helping or encouraging me, she’s just telling me to clean. I’m really trying but some days I cannot physically do everything. I told my husband and he’s going crazy cleaning today. Which isn’t necessary but he knows how upset I am. Ugh idk how to even handle this. I don’t have anyone to help me. My husband works A TON and does what he can. I’m doing my best. It’s rough right now