My first went around 2 or 2.5

Second the same

We just didn't need childcare so spent the time with them at home.

I have this one "friend" who keeps telling me how her little one who went from I think 9 months ....

She knows he gets the social skills and interaction he needs, it’s so varied and interesting and different all the time, craft, learning , socialisation and skills they need

I also have friends who never went to nursery and they are perfectly on target for everything and no dis advantage for not going