If you are in a sexual relationship & you and your partner are free of STD’s etc. &youve never had any in the past.. is it their “RIGHT” to know how many previous partners you’ve had?

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I was confused when I saw this. Personally idgaf how many women my man has been with. As long as he’s with me and only me. To me... just blurting out “oh so yeah I’ve been with 11 men before you”. Is such a turn off. He wouldn’t even ask

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Um No 🙄 just how I don’t wanna know how many he was with , He shouldn’t either , As long as we’re both clean and faithful is all that matters

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I don’t think it’s a right, however I would never be with someone who would keep that a secret from me. I don’t believe in keeping secrets about anything in a serious relationship.

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Its not anyone's right to know but it also shouldn't be a secret. If my partner asked, I would be honest and would hope he would do the same.

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My business. Some men ask this question & them when you give them the number of men you’ve been with they get disgusted. I never understood the need to know exactly. Some may even use this information against you l. That’s some.. not saying all. (It’s ashame I have to even say that cause some ppl on here...)

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That’s funny. I like how they pointed out the stigma on women sexuality, while simultaneously reinforcing that same stigma. The person who wrote that is an idiot. Why would you need to know how many partners they’ve have￼ had unless you believe in said stigma? Not their business. Their business is that their partner is STD free. And that’s it.￼￼

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Its absolutely not anyones right to know my sexual past, idgaf who you are ita none of your business.

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They have a right to ask and you have a right not to disclose. They have a right to leave if its that important to them.

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What I do with my body is my business and my business only. No one has any right to know my history unless it directly affects them like STI's like you mentioned

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I wouldn't call it their RIGHT.  Maybe they want to know, or just curious.  I don't think a partner is obligated to share.

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It’s honestly no ones business but your own. If you wanna tell great but if not you absolutely do not have to. That’s extremely controlling and your just asking for issues after that

If you are in a sexual relationship & you and your partner are free of STD’s etc. &youve never had any in the past.. is it their “RIGHT” to know how many previous partners you’ve had?

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