How would you go about talking to your spouse about a divorce? The army changed him which I wasn't surprised about, and I do love him still but I'm not IN love with him anymore.. moving so far from my life back home is still hard but I just feel like he is living the life he wants (always wanting to be in the army) and I know deep down he wants to reenlist but doesn't because of me, but I definitely dont want to be the reason he misses out on more experience. Again, I feel like he's getting to do what he wants and I'm just here trying to get whatever job is hiring and just work and home, because I've tried making friends and no luck, I just feel like I'm stuck in this situation I'm only 21 about to be 22 and I know I should've thought it through more but it seemed like a good idea then, now I just want to live my life in my 20s, and if I stay and still feel the same in a few years? It's just more time of my life that has gone and past. Any advice helps thank you guys.