Trying after 40

Wasn’t interim trying for a bother one. New relationship abs hope. Been trying the last few months been to different doctors and also been to shady grove. Need to semen analysis and appt been so far out. Leary is paying to150 for i heard mixed feeling about it. Each month been hoping and it’s been negative. 8 cyst was found and. Then only 7 Folicles. They have me spectacle and just besides myself. Don’t know if We should do it. Just tired taking off work and being stuck with needed abs probed