i feel so lonely in my marriage like when i want to cuddle he complains about being hot, if i try to watch a movie he goes to sleep, if i ask him to go out he says he’s tired from work.. i fall asleep alone every night bc he refuses to stay up an extra hour or 30 minutes for me to take my sleeping pills and be tired when he knows i have a horrible time when it come to sleeping, but if he’s on the game he will stay up until 3am. ( i know i sound horrible and selfish but idk if this is normal and i should just suck it up or really start getting upset ) i’ve read that a lot of people feel lonely in their marriages but i can’t do this. He was my bestfriend before we got married and we’ve been married for a year and it’s like i don’t even know him. I don’t believe in getting a divorce without a great reason and want to make this work but i feel like i’m the only one trying and it’s draining and truly i’m tired of it, i am so unhappy. i literally cry myself to sleep alone every night, what’s the point of being married and going through everything alone?