He won’t get away with it this time.....

For anyone following my story or going through something similar:

I was assaulted by my ex whilst pregnant with his child. Police were involved shortly after the assault I had called them before and after the incident. Filed the full report the following morning.

Lost the baby.

There is a court date for the assault. They are charging him with battery.

I have video evidence as well as photos of multiple bruises on me.

Need prayers that all goes smoothly.

I know for a fact I am not the only one who has been abused or potentially killed by my abusive ex.

This isn’t just justice for me. This is for all the women who have been too afraid to step forward. I feel the deep need to come forth. Do what others felt they couldn’t. Whether they were manipulated threatened or were afraid to put the father of your child behind bars. I am not afraid. And he will NOT get away with it this time. Any prior abuse I had experienced with him I was manipulated into thinking didn’t happen. NOT THIS TIME.

Update: there was a hearing today and my abuser tried to plea “not guilty” but he will lose there is too much evidence. I filed A restraining order and it was granted.

We got this moving in the right direction ladies!!! But this wasn’t an easy process I was very involved in this case I had to be my own advocate even more so than normal because when I first called the police they didn’t actually do their job they should have issued me a emergency protective order the day I got assaulted as well as arresting him but since that wasn’t done I had to do a lot of work by myself then trying to find my ex was a whole Nother issue he does not have a permanent residence as of right now so the police could not subpoena him to show up to court so I had to take matters into my own hands safely of course and with the advice from a legal source. i’m just so damn proud of myself for the advocacy that I had for myself during this entire process I lost almost everything.. almost my life and my unborn child’s. Lost a partner I thought I was going to build the rest of my life with.

But what I gained was so much sweeter eventually justice will be served eventually I will be given everything that I have lost and then some.

I feel it in my bones. All the prayers and support that I received during this time.. I could not repay the blessings. Please continue to wish me luck because this legal process is not completely over yet the final step is to have him show up next week get sentenced and then serve time🙏

UPDATE:

He had court today. I had 2 people on standby to serve him restraining order but he did not show.

Bad because he is messsing with the smooth process but good because he’s messing with the smooth process 😈 he’s got a warrant for his arrest now

Praying for more trouble for this fool

Much needed prayers we find him and dan serve him so we can keep this moving along

Update:

He was sentenced.

3 YEARS of probation

3 YEAR Criminal Protective Order

1 YEAR of domestic violence classes

Plus a hell of a fine

Sometimes, justice IS served.