I’ve recently started hooking up with this guy but I think we’ve both caught feelings for eachother. He’s literally my perfect dream guy, but after talking to him about himself I think I know why.

He told me he shapes his personality to be exactly what people want and that he has different versions of himself for different people (he described these as “souls”) he said he has a whole universe in his head with these souls and he often forgets things from when he’s in another soul. I have kind of known this about him for a while but he’d never gone into detail about it.

Learning about this obviously made me confused because I know he’s just making himself into someone I’ll like. I mean that’s a good thing, but at the same time I want to know the real him. He told me his true self is locked away and only comes out when he’s having a breakdown. The way he acts around me and talks to me, would seem like he clearly likes me but idk how I’m meant to know if he really does.

In conclusion, can anyone help with this? He’s never been diagnosed with anything because he doesn’t want to go to therapy or anything. How do I go about this? I don’t know how far we can go relationship wise, is it bad for me to fall for him? How do I know if he really likes me? Does anyone have experience with this pleas help <3