It’s been about a month since I cut off my ex because he doesn’t see me in his future but recently he asked if I wanted to have dinner with him to catch up. I’m confused on what I should do because I’ve been non- stop crying over him and blaming myself for the end of the relationship. What do y’all think I should do..?

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Update: do y’all think I should listen to what he says and base my options on that? He works with my mom, so he asked her if it’s a good idea to ask me for dinner and she told him yeah, she told me that he said that he’s hurting too because I have blocked him or unfriended him from my socials but again how am I going to get over that if I am still friends with him on my socials like??? Anyways do y’all think I should hear him out ? BTW I’m 22 just in case y’all were thinking I was younger or something

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Update: OK OK I’m thinking, i’ll just ask him what he wants through text. I don’t think I want to see him, especially if he’s dead set on what he doesn’t want 😕 also the reason why he doesn’t see me in his future is because I said that I don’t want kids ( especially to go to birth and all the change and I’m struggling just to except my body as it is and I can’t imagine just not being able to bounce back from childbirth plus its scary and a lot of risks to it) and he does. I’m open to any other options like I was thinking about adopting way before that relationship anyways but Idk I guess I’m just sad that he had little faith in our relationship working out and coming up with different solutions ig. That’s why I blamed myself for it ending