Ok, so this is a relationship/sex topic.

So my husband has medical conditions making it painful to have sex sometimes. He shattered his pelvis in a motorcycle accident and had to get his back fused together. SO, this is the problem... I want sex, all. The. Time. When we have sex it is literally the best feeling in the world (TMI, sorry), but it is. It’s not that he doesn’t want sex, he does. I’m just frustrated because unless I initiate it, we don’t have sex. When I do initiate it, he always says yes but makes me do all the work. He just wants to lay there and have me ride him, reverse cowgirl, blowjob, hand job... whatever it takes for us to get off. I’m just tired of always doing all the work... I want sex but I don’t want to always do everything.

He says when I do all the work, he hurts less. But I don’t understand how, when I am literally SITTING on his injuries. I’m not a small girl, I’m thick. So how do I go about telling him I’m not having sex with him until he puts in some work... WHEN ALL I WANT IS SEX ALL THE TIME!?! 😭😭 help me y’all.