Should I look for a new ob?

So last week my ultrasound was rescheduled. I experienced cramping (9 weeks) so i made a comment to the scheduler and she said she would let the doctor know. My doctor called me later that day and said that it could be my uterus growing. He then went on to say “and if it’s a miscarriage, then remember your body knows what to do & we can’t make it stop, everything happens for a reason”. I have had two recurrent miscarriages and so instead of this calming me it made me anxious and filled with me with so much uncertainty. Has anyone else experienced this with their ob after recurrent miscarriages?

I am looking into another practice and possibly preferring a midwife.