So, basically I have been upset lately (just feeling sad, depressed, lonely), anyways, I have been telling my boyfriend this for the past few weeks! And he hasn’t done anything, he doesn’t try to talk to me about it, doesn’t try and make me feel better, just acts like I never said anything.

Anyways, so tonight we got in a small fight about something that kind of upset me! I was trying to tell him how I feel and why I am upset but he just got mad and kept telling me he doesn’t care, I’m too sensitive, etc. I was trying to tell him how this makes me feel worse, but he just kept getting more mad and telling me that he doesn’t care/ kept falling asleep (he often will fall asleep when I tell him how I feel, he does work long hours but it just seems to happen anytime I tell him how I feel?? Maybe a defence mechanism I’m not sure).

Anyways, I kept trying to express how it’s upsetting that he never seems to notice when I’m upset, always falls asleep when I try to tell him how I feel, and tells me he doesn’t care! He tried to tell me he does care and just says that when he’s mad! But since he kept falling asleep and I kept waking him up to continue the conversation he just started to get more mad and upset! He eventually got up and stormed out of the house telling me “to enjoy my life alone”....

Once he left I texted him and told him to drive safe and that I care about him! I ended up calling him a little while later to ensure he was ok! (Which he was). We chatted a bit and he said he’s sorry for the way that he treats me and that he wants to make me feel better! I told him that I’m tired of explaining different ways he can make me feel better (because I’ve told him many different ways in the past but he never tries them). So, this time I told him to do whatever his heart thinks is best and he told me that he knows its not right but he wants to sleep for a bit and then try and make me feel better...

This kind of upset me because if he was super upset I would drive to the end of the world on no sleep just to be by his side and ensure he’s okay. I wouldn’t just go to sleep like nothing was wrong...

Anyways, I’m super upset about the whole thing! But I’m not sure if I should be upset that he’s choosing to sleep instead of wanting to be there for me when I’m upset! I just feel like in a relationship you should want to be there for your partner when they are upset no matter what! Even if you are tired (especially since he does not work tomorrow)

Anyways, what are your thoughts?

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