My 4 year old son was the first child into our family/friends. Aunties, uncles and close friends would spend around £50 on birthdays etc for him. I have now had another baby which they spend the same on. My 2 sister in laws have now both had babies just after my second and some of my friends.

I am wondering what normally happens when there's more than one child. Would aunties and uncles spend less on each child now I have 2. Should I spend £100 on their babies for occasions since they only have 1 each and I have 2. Just wondering what you would do.